Connect to online database using node.mysql

Is it possible to connect to my online database using node.mysql. I'm using cPanel as my hosting site. So far I've tried this approach

var connection = mysql.createConnection({
  host: 'www.agrilif3.com',
  user: 'secret',
  password: 'secret',
  database: 'SmartSurface'
});

But this code gives me this error ER_ACCESS_DENIED_ERROR: Access denied for user 'secret'@'202.92.128.112' (using password: YES)
After this I've tried replacing the host to 202.92.128.112 and now this error shows up

Error: connect ETIMEDOUT
    at Connection._handleConnectTimeout

Can anyone explain what I'm doing wrong and any tutorial site on how to achieve this will be usefull thanks

via Gilbert Mendoza