MYSQL connection error - Error: Packets out of order. Got: 80 Expected: 0

I'm trying to connect a node server to my mysql database. I'm usually connecting with php, so the host is localhost, but I don't know where to find the actual host for connecting.

This is what I'm using now:

    var connection = mysql.createConnection({
        host     : 'hook.icnhost.net',
        port     : '2083',
        user     : 'user1_twitter',
        password : 'twitter',
        database : 'user1_twitter'
    });
connection.connect(function(err){
    if(!err) {
        console.log("Database is connected ... nn");
    } else {
        throw err;
        console.log("Error connecting database ... nn");
    }
});

I got the host and port from the phpMyAdmin connection link.

Error:

Error: Packets out of order. Got: 80 Expected: 0
    at Parser.write (D:\Projects\IntelligentWeb\node_modules\mysql\lib\protocol\Parser.js:41:19)
    at Protocol.write (D:\Projects\IntelligentWeb\node_modules\mysql\lib\protocol\Protocol.js:39:16)
    at Socket.<anonymous> (D:\Projects\IntelligentWeb\node_modules\mysql\lib\Connection.js:103:28)
    at emitOne (events.js:96:13)
    at Socket.emit (events.js:188:7)
    at readableAddChunk (_stream_readable.js:176:18)
    at Socket.Readable.push (_stream_readable.js:134:10)
    at TCP.onread (net.js:548:20)
    --------------------
    at Protocol._enqueue (D:\Projects\IntelligentWeb\node_modules\mysql\lib\protocol\Protocol.js:141:48)
    at Protocol.handshake (D:\Projects\IntelligentWeb\node_modules\mysql\lib\protocol\Protocol.js:52:41)
    at Connection.connect (D:\Projects\IntelligentWeb\node_modules\mysql\lib\Connection.js:130:18)
    at Object.<anonymous> (D:\Projects\IntelligentWeb\index.js:12:12)
    at Module._compile (module.js:570:32)
    at Object.Module._extensions..js (module.js:579:10)
    at Module.load (module.js:487:32)
    at tryModuleLoad (module.js:446:12)
    at Function.Module._load (module.js:438:3)
    at Module.runMain (module.js:604:10)

What does that error mean?

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